So I've been told (read somewhere) that getting 6 fish gives a fairly high chance that you will get fish of both sexes, so thats what I did. I got 6 common BNs when they were 1-2 inches TL. After a month or so, some started growing bristles, so I thought, yay, some male and some female? But in another month all of them had little bristles around 1 mm in length. So I thought, too bad, all male. BUT, until recently, none of their bristles grew to more than 1-2 mm. At the same time, the growth was isolated to the edges of the snouts. So, again I changed my assessment; all female. Finally, just in the past week, I've noticed that some of the fish, the bigger ones, have developed a sort of ridge down the snout. No visible bristles yet, but i see tiny bumps down the ridge. They are now around 5 inches TL.
I do have a pair of younger albino BNs around 3 inches TL. One is slightly larger and clearly male, because he has a bristle or two down the snout and the edge of his snout is full of bristles. The other one is, so far, female; she has no bristles at all.
This is why I am so confused

Thanks in advance for the replies!!